Infographic: When is a Parent’s Help Cheating?

Admissions rates to elite universities keep dropping. As academic competitiveness grows, the pressure to help one’s child in new ways to “get ahead” increases.

Academic cheating is considered by most to be wrong, but what is cheating? How can we create rules that keep the playing field level without a clear definition?

In the infographic below, we explore the grey zone of parental support–and cheating. Where would you draw the line?

Erik Fogg

Erik Fogg is co-author of ReConsider’s written work, co-host of the ReConsider podcast and author of Wedged: How you became a tool of the partisan Political Establishment and How to Start Thinking for Yourself Again. Erik has a masters degree in political science from MIT and has spent years working with various NGOs, Harvard, MIT, United Nations and various private advocacy groups organizations. He’s ghost-written published books. He’s now running a software startup. Erik grew up in a very red part of Pennsylvania and moved to a very blue part of Massachusetts. Having a foot in both worlds has enabled Erik to see how both sides of the political spectrum caricature the other and has sparked his mission to create a real dialogue that cuts through the noise. Erik podcasts from his office in suburban San Mateo, surrounded by 17th and 18th-century European art, a costume-construction toolkit and table, a VR kit, and a small bed for his Boston Terrier, Oscar.

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  • I think it depends a lot on grade level. A parent helping a child with homework, is, to a certain extent, also teaching the child how to do homework in general. How to check their work, how to proofread, instilling an importance of making sure everything is done right. Kids aren't going to automatically see the importance of homework and want to spend a lot of time on it -- that has to be taught.

    To me, at least, going over a spelling assignment with your first grader and saying "Is that how you spell that? What does it sound like when you say the word? Why don't we look it up?" is very different from going over AP bio homework with your high school senior (assuming you're a biology expert here) every day and making sure it's correct.

    When grades start really counting "in the real world" (high school?) is when parents should have backed off. Although, honestly, if every child had at least one parent who helped them with homework every to such an extent that it might border on "cheating," the world would probably be a much better place.

    • Going to agree wholeheartedly on homework. It's supposed to be a learning tool. Major projects / term papers, etc are also things parents should be cautious and back off from before they get to the point of doing them for their kids

  • Some.parents give their kids all the answers because they want them to be perfect. But teachers are not stupid. They know the difference between students work and parents work, and if your kid performs well on certain tests. It's ok to help them get an answer but don't give of to them. It's cheating because your basically their ticket to laziness

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